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Those Dirty Thirties

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	"Get creative. Get naughty! Your sex life is about to take a turn for the best!"

The age people love to get creative with sex and try new things
The thirties! That is when sex may become a bit monotonous and boring! But it is the very age when you are comfortable with your sexuality and your body responses are quite predictable. You know what can delight you and you are bold enough to ask for it! So make the most of it. Get creative. Get naughty! Your sex life is about to take a turn for the best!

Sex can mean much more
Expand your definition of sex. It can mean much more than the good ol� missionary position. Cuddling up together, a sensual massage, oral sex, masturbation�explore and discover more ways to obtain the gratification you crave.

Change the venue
Has sex in bed become a boring routine? Try a new place to kindle your dormant passions. How about sex in the Jacuzzi or the pool house? Hunt for a secluded virgin beach and get into the act like long lost lovers. Trek down into an isolated patch of woods and surrender on a pile of dry leaves. Let the loneliness of the spot, the earthy smell, and your lust take over! Throw caution to the wind and get cozy in your backyard or even on the roof-top on a starry night! The impending danger of being caught makes sex more erotic!

Be spontaneous
One reason sex in the thirties may become boring is because it lacks spontaneity. Do not make it out to be a serious activity. Let sex spell out fun and excitement. Punch, tickle, wrestle, and chase each other. Laugh at stupid jokes and get downright silly. Get into a playful mood. Great sex will soon follow!

Look good, feel good
Sex is always enjoyable when you are fit and in good shape. Exercise regularly, eat well, and pamper yourself occasionally at the spa. Invest in saucy lingerie. A healthy and sexy state of mind is a wonderful aphrodisiac.

Learn new techniques
Be willing to experiment and take risks! You have nothing to lose. Be creative. Increase your sexual vocabulary. Read books and surf web-sites together to get some wicked ideas for incredible sex. Try new and unconventional sex techniques. Focus on the rhythm, the speed, the angle of penetration, and your positions. Explore and discover new ways to attain the ecstasy you desire. You will realize how much you have missed all these years! Sex can be mind-blowing every time.

Sex toys
Explore the sex toys available in the market and gift your partner with a vibrator or a massager. Experiment with all kinds of lubricants and learn which one is the best for you. Watch an erotic movie in bed�it can be a great turn-on.

Create a sexy ambience
Learn to work up a romantic ambience to spruce up your senses. It peps up the love-making. Switch off your phone. Turn on some soft romantic music. Talk dirty and turn your partner on with your moans. Dim the lights or just leave a scented candle burning. Blind-fold your partner and touch him or her in different ways to heighten the pleasure. Smear yourself with flavored lube or chocolate for your lover�s taste buds to come alive. And watch the fire of passion engulf you for eternity!

Forget your inhibitions; get creative and adventurous in your thirties. Gift yourself and your partner the most satisfying and astonishing sex you ever had!

Comments (3)

Posted by: BADBOY22 (09/11/07)

ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT

Posted by: AlwaysAndForever (11/06/07)

This "anything goes" attitude can take the special and sacredness out of spiritual nature of true marital and genuine sexuality meant for life long spouses. Is nothing sacred between couples anymore???? Our marriages and our Bodies are gifts from God!!!