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Traits of a Great Sex Partner

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	"How to spot one before the clothes ever come off"

Finding a needle in a haystack is probably easier than discovering a sex partner who is right out of fantasyland! If you do stumble upon one, hang on to him or her for life! How do you spot one before the clothes ever come off? If you religiously follow the tips, you too can soon be one of them!

Fresh out of a shower look
He looks C-L-E-A-N anytime of the day. His nails are trimmed and he is well groomed. His suit is wrinkle-free. Her hands are warm and soft. She has pampered herself at the spa over the weekend. She looks fresh out of a shower and smells great! Definitely a turn-on! If you have it, flaunt it! She dresses to accentuate her contours. All hidden, yet not so hidden in that sexy attire (Yes, enough to send your dirty mind into a riot of imagination!) Her luscious lips look even more enticing in that exotic lip-gloss she is wearing. He shows off his six-pack abs and his strong, masculine arms in a body hugging sleeveless T-shirt (but he does not over-do it, lest you suspect he is all brawns and no brains!) He lets the two-day stubble be; he knows it drives women crazy!

Bold and Adventurous
She does not flinch talking about the BIG O. She has wicked desires that she loves to share with you. She is comfortable with her sexuality. Nervousness or inhibitions do not figure in her dictionary. She is well versed in the knowledge of sexual responses and techniques. She remains a dedicated student even as her sex repertoire seems to grow day by day! He has read about ways that can make you cry in sheer delight (and cannot wait to try them!) He is familiar with gratifying positions and the latest sex-toys that are 'hot" in the market. Experimenting and taking risks seem to be his mantra for never-ending pleasure! He makes you feel at ease in his company and does not rush you into anything. He makes you feel desired.

Sense of humor
He has a terrific sense of humor that makes him a hit! He is tantalizingly witty, yet subtle. He can go on and on, but his conversation does not tire you. The impish twinkle in her eyes torments you. Her naughty conversations are sheer foreplay for you! Her sense of humor and her sexy confidence (despite her not-a-perfect-10- bod) make an irresistible combination. A touch of mystery He is open and frank. Yet, it seems there is a secret lurking in him, which you are desperate to unravel. His unpredictability enhances his sex appeal. She is bold and fearless. Yet, the innocence that springs up occasionally makes her look so vulnerable that you want to embrace her in your warmth.

Cool 'n confident
He exudes confidence from every pore. He makes his presence felt. His opinion matters. People listen to him when he speaks. He ignores petty talk. He goes by his own rules in anything he does. Heads turn when she walks into a room. Her poise and self-confidence announce, "She is in control." You don't need an aphrodisiac any more!