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is sex ok on the ist date (6 posts) |
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TSTARR SAYS: |
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Sex is never ok unless you are married. Couples need to take the time to get to know each other besides physically. There would be alot less heart breaks and more strong marriages especially if the two could come into the marriage giving each other the gift of virginity.
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ASTRANGEDUCK SAYS: |
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My personal opinion is no. My own reason why is that there is not enough time to sufficiently decide if both of you are compatible. Sex is a risky prospect at best because you know very little about their mental health, physical health (STDs, HIV & AIDS, etc) and what happens if the woman gets pregnant and decides to keep it. What then. The price you pay for the pregnancy could easily equate to one third of your yearly income. Those things in my mind put sex on the first date squarely in the no catefgory. However, in what ever you decide to do you need to do what feels right in your heart. I know that sounds corney but you need to know you won't regret what you did after you did it and that you are capable of handeling any results of your actions.
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SPORTSMOM7 SAYS: |
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I would never tell anyone what to do but I know what I want. I want to be longed for where we take time to get to know eachother and when I walk away after being held in his arms, he knows I want to turn right back and run to him, but I won't. In waiting until I have a real friendship with someone, I feel that when I do finally sleep with him, I am there selflessly, and physically, emotionally, ready have so much more than simple sexual gratification. I am able to savor and enjoy all that it can be..:)
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