are you the dump-er or the dump-ee? Discussion Forum

are you the dump-er or the dump-ee? (2 posts)

	GONZO03_A SAYS:


	Just curious, I guess, because it seems like most people in this forum got dumped, instead of doing the dumping? I'm breaking even, half the time I get dumped and half the time I do the dumping.

	STARGAZERLILY SAYS:


	In my first few relationships, I was the dump-ee. More recently, I've been the one ending the relationship. I wonder what that says about me - more self confidence when it comes time to say goodbye? Or just a coincidence?