There nothing to be scared about. I haven't dated anyone in my life too and have never had sex. So, I wish you could come and join me in Montreal. You will help me get rid of my shiness and we will copulate tenderly night and day. Love you tenderly.
Hello! I have also never had a date or had sex. I am not realy scaered of going on a date, I am just not sure of what to do. I know to be myself, that is no problem I do not put on a show If they do not like me for who I am then why would they ask me out right! Am I suposed to flirt with them? Or If I do not realy like them do I tell them or just avoid them after the date? Can anyone give me some advice?
The most important thing is to be true to yourself and stick to your values/morals. yuo will never have anything to regret if you stick to that. if you rush into sex or pretend to be something you're not, there will only be confusion and guilt the next day. if someone can not like you for your true self then they aren't worth the time. you shouldn't have to put on an act or pretend to be something you're not to get someone to like oyu. you're just fine the way you are. ((peace))
I think the best advice is to be yourself! So many guys that I have dated always end up showing their true colors AFTER I am in a relationship with them, thus the need to really get to know who someone is before I even consider dating them now! I know women are guilty of this too, its good to put your best foot forward at the first meeting but after that TALK to the person you are dating. I mean really discuss things, don't just talk for the sake of talking.
As far as sex goes, guys tend to think about it a lot more than women so expect the guy (even a nice one) to approach that subject sooner than you would think. But that's just the way they are built, if you aren't ready make that clear but don't think because they ask that they are immoral or something. If they are worth it, they will wait until the woman is ready.