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Why remarry (9 posts) |
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KELLYLYNN SAYS: |
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I do not know if I would marry again. I was married 10 years the last two not the best. Since being on my own for almost 9 years now I have grown and continue to grow. I see myself with a partner again though I do not see marrage, living together without a piece of paper would be enough for me. How do others feel about a second marrage? Why remarry?
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WANTAWIFEY SAYS: |
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I believe marriage offers something that other relationships don't. So if someone who loves you wants to marry you I suggest you don't say no.
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LOVE4EVER4 SAYS: |
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Hi I've just got myself registered here in the hope of finding some romance and some excitement and today's my first day here. I do believe marriage offers a kind of comfort that no other relationship can. Ofcourse, no free lunch. There's a lot of hard work.
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SUNDANCER12 SAYS: |
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God made marriage for man and women to compliment each other and build a good life. Alas, without that piece of paper there are no benefits for either person to get if one of you passes on. There are a lot of good things that come from a marriage that you are both willing to work at, there is no separateness but a joining of 2 into 1.
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TSTARR SAYS: |
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I will definitely remarry if I have the opportunity to do so. I have been divorced for 21/2 years now and as much as I have enjoyed my independence I do miss having someone I love to come home to more than being independent. I have the opportunity now to do things differently and now that I am older my husband to be, whoever he may be, will have a more mature, self-assured person than I was when I married the first time at age 20.
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ASTRANGEDUCK SAYS: |
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I think I would remarry. I have spent the last year reading countless books on the topics of love, marriage, happiness, sex, optimissim, anger, and many more topics. The first conclusion I have come to is that when we marry we often do not have a clue how to be married. My Xwife and I got married in a Catholic church, her faith growing up, and to do that we had to go to Precainer (spelling is wrong) but it did an awful job giving us the tools to have a decent marriage. Marriage is not only a bond in which mos tof think it is but is also a busines contract. I learned that the hard way going through all the motions in NYS. I believe it is possible to have a loving marriage but it takes work from both people. Even more important is that we know what a healthy marriage looks like. All the experts say it is a relationship in which the two can function as one but still remain an individual. Marriage is the one place we can learn more about ourselves than any other relationship. Where else do so many things come together that require such a concerted effort to create the love each of desires. Well thats my two cents. Well more like a quarter but who is counting. In either case I hope that each of you find what you are looking for.
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PENWA69 SAYS: |
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I think that being married and raising children are two of the most difficult and complex things we do in our lives, but they require no training. I believe that most people go into a relationship with the hope that the other person will fill a void. If two people went into a marriage waking up each day thinking how can I make my husband/wife happy today, rather than the other way around, the divorce rate would reduce significantly. Once you subscribe to this theory, the trick then becomes finding a mate who thinks the same way. I haven't seen this way of thinking in mainstream society. It doesn't make for "Good T.V." now does it?
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EZ2BHARD SAYS: |
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I PROBABLY WONT DO IT AGAIN. ITS NOT FOR EVERYONE AND I HAVE BEEN THEIR AND DONE THAT SO IM IN no HURRY.
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