Depends on how you look at it. In most cases I know, there wouldn't even be a home if the man wasn't shagging his ass at work all day long. In my opinion, it all evens out
well, I do believe in equality all around. she earns, I earn, I do the dishes, she wipes, ok, if I work outside, she does the housework entirely, if she's at home. Teamwork, I'd say.
there's no such thing as fair share, buddy. you do as much as your heart tells you to do. it all depends on how much you get along, I suppose. if it is real well, you won't mind the extra effort.