Welcome Ladies! Good luck to you both and I hope you find what it is you came here for. Be careful...just trust your instincts. There's really no way to tell if a guy is lying or not when you first start communicating so just be patient; don't rush into anything with anyone and never be afraid to ask questions. I find that the honest guys are more receptive to gentle "grilling" whereas the fakes seem to be the ones that freely offer tons of information (most of which you can tell are lies). Remember the old adage' "If it seems too good to be true; it probably is". You'll know Ladies...just have fun, be yourselves and don't let anyone rush you. Good Luck!
Most of the time you can tell a guy is lying due to his responses, like for example, if they push on the idea of coming to see you even after just talking to you for a couple times, they are probably just ouit to break hearts or just wanna play around with people, especially if they ask for a bunch of pics to get to know to you and the ones you send them, arent good enough they expect personal pics(Nude) in that case they are just wanting to get free porno off of decent women and not pay to get it on there own...... When I talk to someone I am very open with questions, I feel that in order for something to click, there should be no hidden areas around, so I freely answer any questions, and take critics with a grain of salt
Just to add to what Papabear said, I would strongly advise you not to give anyone pics of you unless you are absolutely certain that you can trust them. There are people out there who will use say a face or body of a person from one pic and put someone else's face or body on it to create, among other things, pornographic material. Some holds for pics of your kids if you have any.
Yes, I'm big on safety when using the internet. :)