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Dating again after fiance's death.....when? (3 posts) |
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KIMSEY26 SAYS: |
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I lost my fiance' last year and shortly after found out I was pg. My babygirl is 6 months old now and I have been contemplating dating again. I miss the closeness, talking to and being close with someone.However, I'm still feeling guilty. Any suggestions? Am I being stupid?
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28WILL SAYS: |
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you are not being stupid at all...I am sorry fro your loss though,you should not feel guilty for what you are thinking either. A beautiful woman such as yourself should not have a problem trying to find someone to share those precious moments in life with..good luck...
will
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LOGIKOS SAYS: |
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I lost my younger brother when I was very little. It was hard on me but even harder on my parents. My dad took it particularly hard and felt a lot of guilt. After many months of grieving he began having a recuring dream about my brother. In the dream he was at the foot of a staircase and his son was further up the staircase holding two large buckets that weighed him down. Every night he would have the same dream as he would shout and cry out to his son. He worried and cried during the day for his poor boy who seemed unable to move because of the weight of the buckets. He wondered if maybe there was some unfinished business on earth that was holding his son's spirit back. One night as he looked up at his child he asked "son, what is in those buckets that wiegh you down so?" then, for the first time, my brother replied to my father "daddy, these buckets are your tears."
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