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Heart Broken (5 posts) |
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EBATIZ11 SAYS: |
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I have been with my husband for 11 years, 8 being married. He had an afair. I gave him a second opportunity, but he does not seem to correspond or be sorry about it. It is so hard to just wipe him out of my life.. The situation does not seem to get better; I just don't know how to let him go..Any suggestions anyone?
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LOGIKOS SAYS: |
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It seems like you know what you need to do but your emotions won't let you. There are a few self hypnosis techniques that will help you bring your emotions into line with your reasoning. That is the best I can think of.
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TSTARR SAYS: |
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I am so sorry that you are going through a rough time and know very much what you are going through. Even though my emotions didn't want to let me walk away that's exactly what I did and it was the best decision for everyone. It was a tough decsion because I am a Christian and know that God does not like divorce, but divorce is acceptable when one of the spouses commits adultry. My situation also invloved the safety of my children. That being said I also believe in God's healing and if you know in your heart of hearts that you do not want to leave your husband then pray for strength and guidance and ask the Lord what you should do. I will be praying for you. "Seek ye first the kingdom of Heaven and His righteousness and all these things shall be added to you" Matthew 6:33.
Trisha
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NOMAD27 SAYS: |
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I have been with my girlfriend for 4 and a half years. liking with her personality to me she was perfect. that is why for 4 years i have not change my feelings for her. but one day comes that she had fall out of love to me. I have may reasons in my mind that keep bugging me like yes she fall out of love but what if he had another one in her heart?....you see guys i cant let go my emotions to her. it is like i invest my whole life to her then one day my stocks suddenly fall. It hurts me so much! that i thought i could not recover anymore. She put a dagger in my heart that no matter what i do i could not pull it out! and now she does not answer my calls or my text to her. what will i do? will i keep chasing her? how can i move on when i still have full of love in my heart? Will i let her go?
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LOVEME4ME1960 SAYS: |
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I WENT THROUGH THE VERY SAME THING BUT THERE IS A REMEDY: YOU MUST DECIDE THAT YOU ARE THE KEY TO YOUR INVESTMENT & YOUR PRIZE SOCK IS YOU.
UNTIL YOU ARE ABLE TO REGAIN THAT DESIRE TO SATISFY (SELF), YOUR GOING TO KEEP THAT VOID IN YOUR HEART.
STRICTLY BUSINESS:CUT THE LOST,BE THE BOSS.
WHEN YOU LOVE YOU, IT'S EASY FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO DO THE SAME...
BE BLESSED & STAY BLESSED
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